How to Navigate Grief During the Holidays: Tips for Finding Comfort and Healing

The holiday season can be especially challenging for those who are grieving. In this episode, Alyssa Rose Ackerman and I explore the complexities of grieving during this emotionally charged time and share practical tips to help you find comfort, healing, and balance. Whether it’s adjusting traditions, managing triggers, or allowing yourself moments of joy, we discuss strategies to help you cope during the holidays while honouring your grief.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

1. Understanding Holiday Grief
Why do the holidays amplify grief for so many? We explore how the festive season, associated with joy and family, can feel particularly heavy when you’re grieving.

2. Addressing Emotional Needs
It’s important to give yourself permission to feel. We share tips on how to embrace your emotions fully without judgment and why this is a crucial part of healing during the holidays.

3. Adjusting Traditions
Holiday traditions can become painful after a loss. We offer advice on how to modify or step away from traditions that no longer serve you during this time, helping you create a new path forward.

4. Handling Holiday Triggers
Holiday music, decorations, and family gatherings can trigger unexpected emotions. We discuss strategies to manage these triggers and honour your grief in a healthy way.

5. Seeking Support
If you’re feeling isolated during the holidays, this part of the conversation is for you. We provide guidance on how to seek the support you need from friends, family, or a community who understands.

6. Helping Others Who Grieve
Supporting a grieving loved one during the holidays can be challenging. We share tips on how to offer meaningful comfort without overstepping or making them feel uncomfortable.

7. Creating Meaning
For those looking to honour their loved ones, we share ideas on how to create meaningful ways to remember them during the holiday season.

8. Finding Moments of Joy
It’s possible to find joy and gratitude during the holidays without feeling like you’re dishonouring your grief. We explore how to allow yourself these moments of peace and healing.

9. Managing Social Expectations
With all the social obligations during the holidays, it can be overwhelming to manage expectations while grieving. We offer advice on how to navigate social events and protect your emotional well-being.

10. Building Resilience
For those facing their first or another holiday season without a loved one, we offer messages of hope and encouragement to help you build resilience during this difficult time.

Why You’ll Want to Join The Grieving Gracefully Circle
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Alyssa Rose stands at the threshold of life's profound transitions, illuminating paths through our deepest grief. As Portland's visionary Grief Tender and Death Doula, she weaves together the wisdom of ancient ritual arts with modern somatic and trauma-informed healing to create transformative spaces of honouring and integrating loss of all kinds. As a facilitator, doula, and speaker in the death-positive movement, Alyssa challenges our culture's relationship with mortality and invites us to re-imagine our relationship with loss, ritual, and community care. 

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Grieving Gracefully community
• Grief Support Resources
• Holiday Grief Guide

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